Writing About Family

with Rudri Patel

Writing about Family

August 14, 2024
8 Weeks


Zoom calls Tuesdays 7-8:30pm Eastern

$545.00Enroll Now

Writing About Family is for essay writers at all writing levels, genres, and backgrounds, who are looking to explore how to write about family relationships. All personal essays require characters, narrative arc, and an understanding of exploring a conflict that clearly conveys what is at stake for the writer and reader. However, writing about family is often complicated. What is the truth and how do we write about it if the relationship is still part of our lives? Where do we draw boundaries when writing about family? And how do you we authentically write about family with ethics and legal ramifications in mind?

This course covers essay fundamentals, and focuses on generating new writing: students will write approximately six essays and have the chance to revise two pieces. In addition to writing a significant amount of new material, students will receive personalized feedback with tailored resources and further readings to help them learn while they write. Students will come away at least one (maybe two polished essays) that will be ready for submission to an essay outlet.

Learning and Writing Goals:

  • Generative writing course – Students will write at least two to three essays (and also be able to revise one (maybe more) essays for publication.
  • Editor Feedback – Students will receive editor feedback on each piece submitted.
  • Peer Feedback – Peers will comment on at least three essays submitted by other students.
  • Publication process – Students will receive information and outlets for submission.

Course Objectives:

  • Learn the elements of a personal essay.
  • Identify a strong beginning, narrative arc, and satisfactory ending.
  • How do you write about relationships that are ongoing?
  • What is writing the “truth” as you navigate these relationships?
  • What is the ethics of writing about family?
  • What are some of the legal implications when writing about family?
  • Students will generate 5 – 6 essays, Will have the opportunity to revise two essays.

Zoom Component

The course’s weekly Zoom meetings will take place on Tuesdays at 7:00 PM Eastern time. Meetings will be one hour to 90 minutes in length.


Week 1: Introductions/Elements of Personal Essay/Brainstorming Techniques on Writing about Family

In the first week of class, we will have introductions in class and goals on what we wish to accomplish by writing essays about family. We will discuss elements of the personal essay including the fundamentals of beginnings, narrative arc, and endings. We will also discuss brainstorming techniques re: mind mapping, lists, and memories to come up with ideas regarding family essays

Week 2: Creating Characters with Individuals in Your Family Essay

In the second week of class we will explore the following inquiries:

  • How do you write about your family members in a way that makes sense for the reader?
  • What are some the techniques to create family members on the page?
  • How do you develop voice in your essay (especially when you know your family members so intimately)?

Week 3: Exploring Themes: Trauma, Secrets, Culture, and History

In the third week of class we will look closely at how are context of relationships enables are storytelling. We will discuss the following:

  • How to write about secrets without making it a confessional/diary entry?
  • What are effective ways to deal with trauma as a theme in a personal essay?
  • What are elements of culture and history that make compelling stories in a personal essay?

Week 4: Blending the Personal with the Universal

It’s important to realize that in a personal essay. It’s not enough to tell your truth, but to make it a universal for the reader. We will, in the fourth week, explore the following:

  • Defining themes that are relatable
  • How do we relate personal experiences to universal themes?
  • What role does vulnerability play in making a family essay relatable for a reader?

Week 5: Ethics Involved in Writing about Family

In the fifth week we will explore the following inquiries:

  • How do you balance telling “your” truth and respecting family members?
  • What are the legal ramifications in writing about your family?
  • What are ways to reconcile writing about family in ongoing relationships?

Week 6: What’s Next?

In the sixth week, we will discuss how to deal with the impact of telling your truth.

  • How do you maintain a relationship with your family members after publication?
  • How do you deal with the fear of what you wrote when confronted with family and fear?
  • If a family member feels like their privacy is violated, how do effectively set boundaries to preserve your story?

Week 7: Revising the Essay

In the seventh week, we will discuss revision generally and how to decide what you want to keep or omit based on conversations with family members. Should you tell your truth at all costs?

  • How do you revise?
  • What are practical techniques for revision?
  • How do you reconciling telling your truth in your work, and preserving ongoing family relationships?

Week 8: Revising the Essay/Publication Outlets

In the eighth week we will discuss the following:

  • What publication outlets are interested in your family essays?
  • What is the best way to submit?
  • General Q & A about the process

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August 14, 2024
8 Weeks


Zoom calls Tuesdays 7-8:30pm Eastern

$545.00Enroll Now

Rudri Patel Instructor


Rudri Patel is a lawyer turned freelance writer, essayist, and editor. On staff at Literary Mama and the co-founder and co-editor of the literary journal, The Sunlight Press, her essays and reported work have appeared in The Washington Post, Business Insider, The Lily, Saveur, Civil Eats, ESPN, Parents and elsewhere. Rudri is currently at work on a memoir on grief and culture and how it provides perspective on life’s ordinary graces.