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Vol. 8, No. 2
February 2005
IN THIS ISSUE:
ESSAY: Behind the Scenes by Sheila Bender
CLASS SCHEDULE
USAGE: "Why should we use...?"
ROOTS: "love"
TIPS: Love Clichés
NEWSLINKS
QUOTATION
BEHIND THE SCENES
By Sheila Bender
The first week of my first graduate poetry-writing workshop at the
University of Washington, our teacher William Matthews came to class
in paint-stained clothes. A new arrival at the University, he was
just moving into his house on Seattle's Capitol Hill near the
University District. Although he was dressed very casually and seemed
as if he'd hurried off to class at the last minute, when he talked to
us about poetry, his words were the most elegant I'd heard on the
subject.
I had only recently learned not to throw away my first attempts at
poems. Now I kept them and worked from them. As I wrote for Matthews'
class, I kept hardbound notebooks with pages of lines and stanzas and
arrows pointing to how I thought I should rearrange things; then
there were neatly copied-over versions of poems with the changes
incorporated. I didn't consider this notebook a journal. I was just
being conscientious about doing my work the way one of my classmates,
who had been published, did hers.
One day in class, Matthews told us that he continued to show his
early drafts to "trusted readers." He often mailed his work to them
even if they were living in the same city. He said the formality of
receiving the work and the resulting suggestions by mail helped him
revise his poems. Accomplished poets asking others to read their
drafts? Accomplished poets having drafts rather than fully developed
poems right at the get-go? Didn't the greats' poems flow directly
from the muse to the page, with no changes necessary? It had not
really dawned on me that our famous workshop leaders were able to
help us through the development of our poems because they themselves
had worked their way through version after version!
I listened to this great writer who let me know that the people I
called "important" writers had something like the hardbound workbook
I was creating for class. I guess all this time I had been applying
some rule out of elementary school--that teachers inhabit a different
world than their students, that although students learn by doing
drafts and revisions, real writers (and therefore our teachers)
didn't do this.
Several years after I had graduated with a master's degree in
creative writing, published poetry, and written instructional books
on writing, my agent hooked me up with an editor who wanted a book on
journaling that was "something different" than the books already out
there. As I began dreaming up a proposal, I remembered that day in
class when Matthews told us about having trusted first readers and
getting their response. I realized that doing this book on journaling
could help me learn more about what Matthews (and other well known
writers) did behind the scenes in developing their writing. I would
ask Matthews and others to contribute sample journal entries if they
had them and words of wisdom on journaling. Novelist Lisa Shea's
entries were word meditations; author Ilan Stavans' were rants about
the political side of getting recognized. Denise Levertov meditated
on exhibits she'd seen and books she'd read, and Janice Eidus, Pam
Houston, and Fenton Johnson wrote letters as a journal. Ron Carlson
kept numbered lists of witty descriptions. Robert Hellenga wrote
about his travels in Italy, the country in which he would set a
novel. Robin Hemley and Steven Winn recounted dreams. Stanley
Plumly, Brenda Hillman, and Linda Bierds kept notebooks of poem
revisions. The purposes of their journals and the writing in them
helped make my book, The Writer's Journal: 40 Contemporary Writers
and Their Journals, a success. Readers learned many strategies and
reasons to write and keep what they had written -- even if they did
not know what they would do with it or how long it might take to
figure that out.
I realized my notebooks of revision attempts and, by this time, my
box of poems, started on scraps of paper. l learned that when
maintaining an email correspondence, writing letters I'd never send
or letters I did send, going off on some tangent out of strong
feeling, doing a writing exercise, or trying to get down the exact
quality of light at sunrise, I was keeping a journal if I kept the
writing. I had many writer's ways and habits at my fingertips.
I began to assemble what I wrote when I "wasn't really writing." I
knew that the words and strategies had value to me because they kept
me writing and might be useful for future "mining." To keep these
scribblings, I eventually settled on a box as well as computer files.
Now, like the writers I admired, I put all kinds of things down on
the page to keep myself writing. I look to my writer's journals to
imitate strategies that wil l help me access surprising parts of
myself and put them on the page.
Reading the journal entries of the greats always reminds me that
inspiration is not always clothed in elegance; it often arrives
informally attired.
(Parts of this essay first appeared in The Diarist's Journal, Volume
II, Issue #2 and Writing It Real, 6/5/03)
Writers on the Net instructor SHEILA BENDER will be teaching KEEP A
WRITER'S JOURNAL LIKE THE PROS in March. She is a poet, essayist,
author and publisher of Writing It Real (www.writingitreal.com).
Right now, Sheila is offering a *special two-for-one subscription
rate for Writers.com subscribers*! Email her at
info@writingitreal.com for more information on how to subscribe and
get the free extra subscription for another writer you know. Her
personal Web site is
http://www.sheilabender.com.
USAGE: Why should we use "If I were you..." rather than "If I was
you..."?
"If I were you" is an example of the present subjunctive. English
verbs have "moods"* and the subjunctive mood expresses a condition
which is doubtful, not factual, impossible, hypothetical, etc. To
express this implausibility, it uses the past tense "were."
- If I were you, I'd buy her roses.
- I wish she were my valentine.
- If Sally were to be elected Valentine Queen, she would decline the honor.
* The other moods, in case you are wondering are the
indicative
mood (the most common, used to make statements) and the i
mperative
mood (used to give direct commands.)
ROOTS
"love"
"Love" is a very old word in the English language. It is found in the
earliest English writings (8th century) and comes from the Old
English "lufu" which is related to Old Frisian "luve," Old High
German "luba," Gothic "lubo," and similar words in early
Scandinavian. The Old English term for "dear" -- "leof" -- is closely
related. Both come from Latin's "lubere, libere" -- " to please." In
New Latin the related word "lubido" means "desire, lust")
The origin of using "love" to mean "zero or "nil in tennis scoring
probably comes from the phrase "to play for love (of the game)" --to
play for nothing.
TIPS:
Love Clichés
Clichés start out as creative, original idioms. They are so good, in
fact, that they get used over and over. The phrases become so
familiar that, eventually, they become almost invisible when we come
across them in our reading. What was once a truly meaningful phrase
becomes meaningless. Writers can use clichés occasionally in a
humorous way or even to make a succinct point, but, for the most
part, your writing will be enriched by originality and fresh phrases.
(We provide no advice as to their use in your personal
relationships.)
Here are some clichés about love that are probably best avoided (at
least in your writing):
- All's fair in love and war.
- All you need is love.
- America: Love it or leave it.
- Crazy in love
- Face only a mother could love, A
- For love or money
- I love New York
- I love my iPod
- If you love someone set them [him or her] free.
- In love with life
- Labor of love.
- Learn to love
- Live to love
- Long lost love
- Love bites
- Love burns
- Love conquers all.
- Love hurts
- Love in his eyes and lust in his heart
- Love is a battlefield.
- Love is blind.
- Love is in the air.
- Love is [just] a four-letter word.
- Love is like a rose.
- Love is never having to say you're sorry.
- Love makes the world go 'round
- Love of money is the root of all evil
- Love sick
- Love the one you're with.
- Money can't buy you love.
- No love lost
- Puppy love
- Thin line between love and hate
- 'Tis better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.
QUOTATION:
"Love. Fall in love and stay in love. Write only what you love, and
love what you write. The key word is love. You have to get up in the
morning and write something you love, something to live for."
-- Ray
Bradbury
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